I would have to say by now that I am a professional messy diaper changer. I have probably changed a thousand of Adrian’s messy diapers. It is pretty second nature now. I have changed them everywhere from a comfortable bed to the backseat of a car. I figured I would give a few of my “wise” knowledge to the masses when it comes to changing a messy diaper.
First, if you are new to or just beginning to change messy diapers then I would highly suggest making a note to yourself to at first just try and either clip your nose or hold your breath at certain points during the change. The last thing your partner wants is for you to gag and throw up on them. For beginners – make it a slow process to getting use to the smell of a poopy diaper before just going all out. There is nothing wrong with trying to become accustomed to the smell – it is just part of the learning process.
Second, make sure before you begin to have everything laid out and within reach so that you can do the deed as quickly and efficiently as possible. Some people might like if you go slow but at least for the beginners, they just want to get it over quickly and get through it so they know they can do it. Until you get use to it where you are comfortable going at a slower pace without throwing up or gagging or something like that – the quicker the better until you both are use to it.
Third, make sure you are talking to the person being changed as it helps get your mind off the changing and makes both of you more comfortable, especially at first. Talking will get your mind off the mess in front of you as well as help the person being changed not feel so self-conscious. So, that is a big tip that I tell people to try.
Fourth, make sure you have larger wipes and not baby wipes. Pampers Swipers are perfect for this or adult wipes would do the job. These wipes will help clean up messes easier and quicker. I highly suggest them over baby wipes for adults.
Lastly, try to have fun with it. Making it a chore or inconvenience makes it no fun for you and no fun for the person being changed. Why make it incomfortable and not fun. It should be something you and your partner or whomever share together and not just some waste of time action.
Peter,
Well explained. My fiance is a nurse and is very used to changing messy diapers all day long. Honestly, I don’t know how she does it. The added difficulty for her is that the hospital uses cheap diapers that barely contain messes. So she has to change the sheets and everything. Though I bet changing someones messy diaper in the back of a car is no easy task! Keep writing my friend!
Mike B
Sounds like good advice. For those of us not lucky enough to have someone willing to change our diapers, how do you handle changing yourself after a mess?
Thanks! Don
Hmm i think that this would be very helpful. But to be honest i find that im kinda lazy and would tell my partener lets shower it off instead >.<
I like the “psychological advice” towards the end, but would also be interest about any insight you have about selfchanging.
In any case i thank you very much for your post. Hope to read more
Hi, I am new to the DL scene, but surprisingly enjoying it. I got into it because a girl at work had a diaper super imposed on a picture of her as a joke, but it got me thinking. I finally built up the guts to buy some. It felt strange and was quite difficult to get myslef to actually do anything in the diaper. .A phycological thing I suppose, but I am getting better. I agree with you Peter about the crinkle and the feel of the diaper, I really enjoy it. I am not very experienced with diapers of any age let alone an adult diper on myself when its messy. Can it be done standing up as I where diapers in secret and can’t change myself anywhere but in my bathroom. Problem is I am quite tall and my bathroom is quite small. A way of changing whislt standing would be very helpfull.
I have to agree with the methods you listed to help in changing a messy diaper. It took me a while to get used to the smell mostly but now that I am I have no problem with doing so. I can change my diaper pretty quickly because of the tips you’ve listed and others that I do myself.
HELLO EVERYONE I WEAR DIAPERS 24/7 AND I USE MY DIAPERS THE WAY THEY ARE MEAT FOR AND THAT IS PEEING AND POOPING I WILL CHANGE A WET OR MESSY DIAPER AND IT DONT BOTHER ME
just a few tips for self changing.
I only mess alone when I’m at home. When I change I follow the same routine. Run the shower before you take the diaper off. Have your body right next to the tub so you can step in quick as possible. Last but not least after you’ve untaped try and take as much off as possible with the rear of the diaper or the front. Once you get in the shower the rest is basically self explainitory.
Anyway Thats all I have on that. Personally I have a wife/mommy to change my messy diaps but on the other hand I try not to because I feel bad making her do all that lol. She’s really great though.
William.
William,
Does your wife wear napies as well?
Peter and Adrian, congratulations on your mutual love of diapers and changing. I love diapers too, but more often on other people. As a Dominant Daddy to two very special women I find the intimacy of changing their wet and poopy diapers and monthly menstrual changes very cathartic. No matter how stressfull the day the changer and the changee find tremendous relief (no pun intended) in this very honest exchange of caring. Kelsey loves the erotic tension of having her diapers changed in the back seat of my car. Cara not so much now since the intrusion we experienced this summer. That said, it’s so refreshing to see such a candid sharing of information on such a personal topic. Love the tips and the intelligent comments. I know you’ll attract many followers.
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All the Best,
ED
i love peeing and popping myself in public then ask a random person to change my wet dieper
Peter,that was a good article(thanks)cannot believe some would mess themselves on purpose…but ive seen the sites,people of all types,a few bad apples in every bunch….anyways I have visiting nurses seeing me now,they ask if i need help with bathing,cleaning,diaper changing…to scared to ask for diaper help..my problem is they never stay up,medicare diapers,The only solution ive found was to snap suspenders on them,with toilet paper folded up in the snaps..Im just to chicken to ask a nurse to show me how to put one on correctly,,why dont they make them fit like diapers on babies (without barney}Im single,straight never had any kids and never have changed a diaPER IN MY life…except mine..typical male…
ive been a baby longs as i can remem,berI am an adult baby,dont tell anyone..ive always been to scared and shy…THANKS